Despite the rainy Monday, we had a nice turnout of 18 people, all PWS, and two awesome first-timers, welcome Jade and Kyme. Marc kicked things off, as we went around introducing ourselves, saying why we were here for the night. We split into two, and the smaller groups resulted in a more intimate discussion. Below we explain it all.
opening up at home
As always, we discussed advertising. We talked about opening up to loved ones, and how difficult this can be for some of us, especially in some cultures where stuttering is a taboo topic. One member expressed the challenge she faces when trying to open up to her family about her stuttering. The vibe she experiences is drastically different at home than what it is like at group. It seems true, sometimes advocating for yourself with the people that love you the most can be one of the most challenging things to do.
why we come
But we all want or need some thing from the group, that’s why we are here. One member expressed, “I retain the thoughts and the stories of people from the NSA group and use them to comfort myself in situations of struggle.” All of us can attest to this. And depending on where we are on our journey, for some of us, we may even need something even more, based on our goals…and perhaps 1.5 hours a month is just the beginning of it all..
being specific about making change
For some of us we are here to figure out a game plan of how to move forward, how to climb up our ladder of challenging situations. We talked about how to work on speech by setting specific goals, rather than just saying “I want to be mindful,” or “I want to be more fluent,” or “I want to stutter in a more forward moving way.” We agreed, this takes planning and having a strategy.
One idea that comes up meeting after meeting, and seeing our large turnouts, both with the Brooklyn and the Midtown Chapters, we are reminded of the large and growing stuttering community here in NYC. But the truth is, it is really up to each one us to take initiatives, and get together with one another outside of group. We have the best resources here in New York City, and that is each other. Our chapter leaders are here to help facilitate this, and we’re open to suggestions of how we can help. Let us know.
I was in a shitty place a couple years ago. I had many goals, but often found myself paralyzed with fear. Attending the Brooklyn Chapter at the time was helpful, but it wasn’t enough. Fast-forward a couples years. My involvement in the community and the relationships I have cultivated here with some of the most amazing people I know I will ever meet, has giving me, and continues to give me, strength I never knew I had. I encourage you to do the same, get involved in your own way.
take the initiative!
On that note, there are many opportunities for leadership roles within our organization, and opportunities to foster relationships with other amazing people in our community. It’s up to you and only you to take that initiative. Reach out to us, suggest a meet up, suggest how you want to get involved, make a stutter buddy, or whatever term you like to use.
Holiday Party: Saturday December 13th
One great way to meet up with people from the community is coming up. Save the date, mark your calendars for the NSA NYC Holiday Party on Saturday December 13th. It will start at 8:15pm at a venue in the Midtown area. Bring anyone you want. We’ll be sending out details within a couple weeks regarding the specific location.
Goodbye and Congratulations to Marc Winski
Lastly, Marc Winski will be leaving us this month for an awesome singing gig he just got from Disney! He will be cruising around the Caribbean for the next 8+ months, entertaining guests onboard cruise liners, bringing in some cash money for himself, and spreading some stuttering awareness for all of us. We’ll miss you at group Marc, but we are proud that you will be doing something awesome that you love.
Remember everyone, together we are strong.